Thirty nine years
ago on Wednesday, 17th November a young man died in a road traffic
accident on the Dublin Road, just a few miles from his home in Offaly
Street. He was my younger brother,
Seamus. Last Sunday while I was attending
Mass in St. Michael’s Parish Church I realised that this year the date and day
of his death coincide as they did in 1965.
I was living in
Dublin then, while attending a Post Graduate course in the School of Public
Administration in Landsdowne Road to where I had been sent by the Kildare
County Manager, Matthew Macken. I had
previously attended night classes in University College Dublin and graduated
with a B. Comm. and because of this was chosen as the first County Council
official outside of Dublin to attend the School of Public Administration. It was an exciting time, even for a mature
student as I then was, attending full time lectures while drawing a salary from
Kildare County Council. For the first
time in my life I had the time, the leisure and unlike most other full time
students, the means, to indulge my interest in literature and history. In those days “digs” were the mainstay of life away from the family home and I
had changed from lodgings in Naas to lodgings with an elderly woman living in
Rialto. A second hand bicycle bought in
Birds of Portobello provided me with the means of getting around the city and
the daily journey along the Canal to Landsdowne Road was both invigorating and
undoubtedly healthy.
I recall that on
the previous Sunday, 14th November the A.G.M. of the Catholic Young
Mens Society [known to all and sundry as the C.Y.M.S.] was held in Athy and as
Honorary Secretary my brother Seamus presented his report. I remember having an argument with him on the
morning of the A.G.M. after my unsought advice on something or other to do with
his report was rejected. I returned to
Dublin that evening and on the Wednesday evening I attended a debate in the
Landsdowne Road headquarters of the School of Public Administration. I got back to the digs at about ten o’clock
or so and was lying on my bed reading a copy of Flann O’Brien’s “At swim two birds” when a knock came to
the front door. It was Fr. Larry
Redmond, the senior curate of Monkstown Parish Church and former curate in
Athy, whose housekeeper Mary Murphy had arranged the digs for me with an old
friend in Rialto.
There had been an
accident in which my brother Seamus was involved earlier that evening and
several attempts had been made to contact me.
Nobody knew the address where I lived, there was no phone in the house
and repeated phone calls to the School of Public Administration went
unanswered, despite the fact that with my fellow students I had spent the
evening on the premises. Eventually a
couple of friends including Teddy Kelly and Ted Wynne drove to Dublin and
called on another school pal, Seamus Ryan, who in turn phoned Fr. Redmond to
enquire if he knew where I could be contacted.
Fr. Redmond’s housekeeper, Mary Murphy, knew where I lived and Fr.
Redmond drove across the city to make contact with me and to break the tragic
news.
I remember
travelling home later that night with the lads I had grown up with in Athy and
who had been my friends since our school days in the Christian Brothers. It was a sad journey and as the car rounded
the bend at Ardscull, the scene of the accident came into view. The car in which Seamus had been a front seat
passenger, a Morris Minor, was lying at the side of the road. We passed on and the enormity of what
happened only became apparent when I walked into the living room of our home in
Offaly Street. All of the family were
there. I was last to arrive, my mother
crying the tears of a mother smothered in grief, my father deeply saddened, yet
showing the strength which would protect and shield his family in the days to
come.
This was the first
time death had visited our home in Offaly Street and the tragedy and sadness of
parents mourning the loss of a son added a sense of unreality to what was
already an unreal situation.
Thirty nine years
later the pain has eased and my mother and father who shared the sadness and
grief known only to parents, have passed on.
Time certainly heals but the scars always remain and I can still vividly
recall the anguish of my mother who would never forget the enormous void
created by the loss of her youngest child.
For in memory, he was always a child, the one who unlike his four
brothers, stayed at home in Athy to live with his parents. Seamus who worked in the local Asbestos
factory was known as “Sos” to his
friends and had a most friendly disposition.
I gather the night before he died he had won some money at a card game
in the Golf Club and as himself and Teddy Kelly took a lift in Aiden Gleeson’s
new car as far as Dallon’s Corner after work on that Wednesday, Teddy as one of
the losers was thanked for his financial “contribution” to what was to be a
night out in Dublin.
Seamus set out
with some friends to travel to Dublin but within half an hour of finishing work
and just outside Athy his life was extinguished. The horror of that night was not yet finished
as my father, then in the penultimate year of his service in the Gardai was
called out to the scene. It was a task
he had undertaken on several previous occasions and I can recall him bringing
back to our home for a cup of tea and words of consolation motorists who over
the years had the misfortune to be involved in fatal road traffic
accidents. Accustomed as he was to road
traffic scenes I cannot imagine how he felt when he sought to check the
identity of the body lying on the side of the road after the injured had been
transferred by ambulance to hospital.
When the covering on the body was raised he discovered to his horror
that his youngest son was lying dead on the road.
On Wednesday, 17th
November 1965 life came to a standstill for one family in Offaly Street. Thirty nine years later I sit here wondering
what the future might have held for Seamus Taaffe had he lived out the
expectations which his parents had nurtured during the 21 years of his short
life.
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